The problem of light scattering by nonspherical particles, which arises in many applications, is nowadays most frequently solved by the method of extended boundary conditions in combination with the expansion of the fields in terms of spherical wave functions. However, such an approach encounters difficulties if the shape of particles is far from spherically symmetric, even in the simplest case of spheroids with the semiaxis ratio a/b > 5-10. A new approach to solving this problem is proposed, which also applies the extended boundary condition method but involves the expansion of the fields in terms of spheroidal functions. In this case, to obtain effective solutions for strongly prolate and oblate particles, the fields are divided in two parts with known properties and specific scalar potentials are used for each part. The basic relations of the approach are presented and some results of calculations of the optical properties of spheroids and spheroidal Chebyshev particles that are performed using computer codes realizing this approach are given. The convergence of the results for different cases and the domain of applicability of the method are discussed.